Best 40th birthday gift ideas for women that she'll treasure for years to come (2024)

last updated 19 July 2023

1. Diptyque Baies Scented Candle

RRP: from £35

If you're a fan of rose perfumes but love something fruity as well, this popular Diptyque candle will tick all of your boxes with its blend of blackcurrant and rose notes that work in unison to create a sweet and sharp but comforting aroma. It's one of the best scented candles for a fragrance that really fills the room and lingers.

2. The PIG Hotels Three Course Meal Voucher

RRP: from £60

Found in some of the most beautiful parts of England for a memorable UK staycation, The Pig Hotels have a well-earned reputation for heavenly rooms, illustrious interiors, and incredible food. Treat someone to a three-course meal at any of The Pig Hotels with this voucher and they'll enjoy a lunch or dinner cooked with the freshest and most authentic foods and ingredients.

3. Hunter Women's Original Tall Wellington Boots

RRP: from £94

Before they were a cult favourite among trend-setting festival-goers, Hunter wellies were the first-ever wellington boots, designed over 150 years ago to be durable, comfortable and, most importantly, tackle all of the elements. Throw on your best winter coat and you're reading for some countryside romping.

4. The White Company Hydrocotton Unisex Hooded Ribbed Robe

RRP: £85

Give them something that feels truly luxurious with this hydrocotton robe that looks as indulgent as it feels. You could even pair it with a pair of the best slippers for a truly cosy present, or alongside a diffuser or candle.

5. Kew Gardens Living Jewels Green Serve Platter

RRP: £24

We like nothing better than finding a gift that looks so much more expensive than the price tag, and you'll find just that with this jewel-toned homeware range from the Royal Botanic Gardens, Kew. Gifting serveware is always a failsafe 40th birthday gift idea for someone who loves to host, because one could always do with more plates to present things on at dinner parties, when entertaining friends for lunch or just giving out biscuits with a cup of tea.

6. Posh Totty Personalised Family Names Necklace

RRP: £69

A gorgeous customised gift that will be cherished forever, this family names necklace is designed to keep your loved ones close to your heart. Choose from sterling silver, yellow gold, or rose gold, customise the text and pick the chain length for a bespoke piece that will be completely unique to the recipient. One of the best personalised jewelry gifts for those with a sentimental side.

7. Patch Plants Glass Terrarium

RRP: from £58

Everyone loves a new plant, and this beautiful terrarium is sure to add a statement to any home. It's air-purifying and doesn't need constant watering, which are both great aspects. This plant would look great in a bathroom, bedroom, living room, patio—just about anywhere really!

8. Greenfeast: Autumn, Winter by Nigel Slater

RRP: from £14.21

Nigel Slater 's seasonally-focused selection of plant-led recipes is one of the best cookbooks, featuring a collection of over 110 substantial and comforting dishes. This would also make one of the best gifts for couples who love to cook up a storm in the kitchen together.

9. Apple 10.9-inch iPad Air

RRP: from £849

A practical present that also gives the gift of convenience, this is a piece of tech where you don't realize how much you needed one until you have the endless opportunities at your fingertips. This model offers a number of intuitive features to make multitasking easy, with features like Split View and Slide Over easier to discover and easier to use.

10. Fire Pit

RRP: Varies

It doesn't matter how chilly a British evening gets when you have a fire pit, so gift them a stylish option that will look lovely in their garden and please any friends and family visiting. It would also make one of the best wedding gifts for any couple who are just moving into a new place together. Shop the best outdoor furniture deals to get great prices and start planning those upcoming summer nights.

11. Joules Bee Glass Cake Stand

RRP: £38

This beautiful cake stand makes a lovely homeware piece to sit decoratively on a shelf or kitchen counter on its own, so imagine how well received it will be by a friend or family member who has developed a penchant for baking? We love the smooth stoneware and imperfect lines of this design, and we also love the affordable price point for such a high quality item, too.

12. Missoma Knot Lacquered Jewelry Box

RRP: £175

This elegant jewellery box will help them keep all of their trinkets neat and organised and will look good on their dresser too. This box has two levels inside, the base of the box that has two deep large sections for things like watches and bangles, and a shallower removable tray above it that features a large and medium section and rows to hold their rings. It also has hanging hooks on the inside of the lid for them to store necklaces neatly.

13. Paxton & Whitfield Cheese Subscription

RRP: £120

Cheese and wine nights just got a serious upgrade. Treat someone to a subscription with Paxton & Whitfield and each month they will receive four carefully selected kinds of cheese, in peak condition and chosen for the season. Three months is the minimum subscription available, but there are also 6 and 12-month membership options. If you're feeling really decadent, you could pair this gift with a bottle of the best champagne from our guide.

14. Cook To Go Cookery Course

RRP: from £80

Give the best home cook you know an experience they won't forget and new skills they can use forever, by gifting them a place on this popular cookery course. Offering advanced training for ambitious home cooks, the lucky recipient of this gift will learn how to cook infused foams and complex sauces, prepare and cook fish, meat, and poultry to perfection as well as learn the secrets to making the ultimate desserts.

15. Partnership Editions Gift Card

RRP: from £50

Partnership Editions is a platform that offers art by emerging artists and sells both affordable limited edition prints and original artworks. Art is so subjective, and buying it for a home is deeply personal, so avoid making the wrong choice by making the right and easy choice to buy someone a gift card instead. Let them find and fall in love with a new piece of art themselves—then thank you for it afterward.

16. Urban Decay Naked Ultra Violet Palette

RRP: £41.65

Purple hues are one of the biggest 2023 spring/summer fashion trends, so it makes sense that the beauty world is following suit, too. This stylish makeup pallet will allow the wearer to create vibrant and bold looks—with a super smooth and easy-to-apply formula for flawless results.Use our guide to gorgeous purple eyeshadow looks to help inspire your recipient once they've received your gift.

17. Sunrise or Sunset Hot Air Balloon Ride for Two

RRP: £268

For a truly spectacular 40th birthday gift idea, treat them to a sunrise hot air balloon ride for memories they'll treasure forever. Travel from a choice of launch sites throughout the UK and toast the occasion with a glass of bubbly after landing.

18. Grind Coffee Subscription

RRP: from £27

Give the gift of great coffee with a subscription to Grind, London's premier coffee company. Choose a subscription from one to 12 months, and each month your coffee lover will be sent compostable coffee pods forNespresso machines, whole bean, or ground coffee in a blend of their choice.They can switch up their blend, or the format, at any time throughout the subscription and a personalised email will come with a special message from you to celebrate the big day.

19. Personalised Pamper Kit

RRP: from £8.50

For a truly unique gift, the packages from Don't Buy Her Flowers can be personalized to suit your loved one's needs. Pull together their favorite scents and products for an evening of pampering, or browse the other kits from the brand, from co*cktail making kits to cooking kits.

20. Personalised Napkin Gift Set

RRP: £45

For the house proud friend or family member who loves to host dinner parties or a spot of afternoon tea, this is the perfect gift. These wildlife and vegetable-themed napkins come in a handmade, screen printed gift box for a truly tasteful 40th birthday gift idea.View the latest Not On The Highstreet discount codes to save money on your purchase.

21. Silver and Birch Forget Me Not Earrings

RRP: £16

Silver and Birch create beautiful handmade pieces of jewellery from real flowers and plants, so if you're looking for gifts for gardeners with a difference, look no further. The forget-me-not sterling silver earrings, made with real flowers, make a thoughtful gesture that's sure to go down well with those who favour elegant, simple jewellery. The brand also offers home decor along the same botanical theme.

22. Nyetimber English Sparkling Wine

RRP: £21.99

The rise of English sparkling wine has seen some delicious varieties pop up in local wine stores and supermarkets. The Classic Cuvee Multi-Vintage is a blend ofNyetimber's three classic grape varieties - Chardonnay, Pinot Noir, and Meunier. It's light and fresh, with hints of citrus and white flowers, and a creamy texture, making it the perfect gift for a wine connoisseur.

23. Create Academy Gift Voucher

RRP: from £49

Brilliant as more unusual 40th birthday gift ideas, these online courses can be gifted using digital vouchers and are available in all countries. No packaging, no wrapping, no waste and you can order instantly - so they make a fabulous solution for any last minute shoppers!

Choose from a range of courses led by some of the world's leading creatives for your lucky recipient. From an introduction to upholstery, contemporary quilting, interior design and styling, to floristry, gardening courses and cooking, there's something for everyone.

24. Weleda Wellness Retreat

RRP: from £950 per person

If you're struggling for what to buy someone for their 40th birthday, treating them to a new experience is always a good idea. Weleda Wellness Retreats take place over a long weekend and consist of immersive, seasonal experiences that celebrate nature in the Peak District, home of one some of the best walking holidays in the UK. The price includes delicious organic food, blissful treatments, picture-perfect views of rolling countryside, guided walks, inspiring talks and workshops.

2023 Dates: 13th-16th October

25. House Sign

RRP: from £24

An unusual 40th birthday gift idea to be sure, but isn't that why you're here, for inspiration? When a family member asked for a house sign for their birthday it got us thinking, wouldn't this make a fabulous gift for others? It's the definition of something that is lovely to have but you wouldn't necessarily buy for yourself, and it's also a gift that will stand the test of time. Win-win.

26. Stationery Collection

RRP: £40

For the devoted letter-writer in your life, gift them this beautifully illustrated set of notecards, greeting cards, envelopes and writing paper from Cotswolds-based company Wildflower Illustration Co. This one features a charming book theme, but there are also designs with flowers and birds depending on what would best suit your recipient.

27. Mother of Pearl locket

RRP: £295

A list of 40th birthday gift ideas wouldn't be complete without some truly special jewellery suggestions, and a locket makes a lovely gift for any milestone birthday. This yellow gold and pearl necklace certainly fits the bill. Complete the locket with a picture of their partner, pet, children or lost loved one for a thoughtful, sentimental 40th birthday gift that they will cherish.

28. Peonia Lustre Pink & Orange Glass Vase

RRP: £29.50

Fresh or dried flowers are an enduringly popular gifting option for a reason. Sign up your recipient to a flower subscription box and then gift them this gorgeous vase alongside the subscription for an extra thoughtful gift. The two-toned glass vase looks much more expensive than it is, and with a heavy base, it's a sturdy option that'll keep a rotating selection of blooms in pride of place.

29. Chanel No.5 Eau de Parfum Spray

RRP: from £71

You can never go wrong with this classic fragrance, one of the best perfumes for women, with a scent just as iconic as its bottle. With notes of jasmine, rose and vanilla, this mature and delicate perfume will always be appreciated, whether your recipient is on the hunt for a new staple scent, or if they're in need of a new bottle for their nightstand.

30. Joe Browns Fabulous Floral Hand Painted Gin Glass

RRP: £25

Joe Browns offers a selection of gorgeous homeware with a cosy, rustic feel, but we particularly love this hand-painted gin glass, which would pair well with one of their favourite bottles as one of the best gin presents. For a thoughtful and unique gift, this glass is also very reasonably priced.

31. Everlane Organic Canvas Weekender

RRP: £103

One of the best weekend bags for women, this canvas option from Everlane comes in a range of colurs, but we love the 'capuccino'. With an internal zipped pocket for important documents and a sturdy handle, this 100% organic cotton bag is a must for trips away, but could also be taken to the office as a fashionable alternative to the classic work backpack.

32. Take Form Rubber Yoga Mat 5mm

RRP: £118

If your loved one has recently got into pilates or is curious about the benefits of yin yoga for mindfulness and a relaxing exercise practice, this Lululemon mat is the perfect gift. One of the best yoga mats, it features a 3D-texture which allows the user to stay grounded, and being a thick yoga mat which is very good quality, it'll last them for years.

33. Bloom & Wild Classic Blooms Subscription

RRP: From £20

One of the best flowery delivery services in the UK, Bloom & Wild will provide a gift that keeps on giving for your loved one in the form of a flower subscription gift, with beautiful blooms arriving in a letterbox-friendly package every month. You can choose the bouquets your friend will receive, or leave it up to Bloom & Wild's team of knowledgeable florists to pick a unique curation of seasonal buds each month.

34. Personalised Birth Flower Ceramic Tile

RRP: £34

A personalised gift they won't be expecting, this sweet ceramic tile features a beautiful pattern based on your loved one's birth flower. The tile reads the recipient's name, birth month, and their birth flower (or choose your own message!), and could be framed and mounted on the wall or kept pride of place on their table.

35. Selfridges Selection co*cktail Hour Gift Box

RRP: £100

For the co*cktail lover, this luxurious gift will surely be appreciated. Featuring bottles of Selfridges' own vodka and gin, a jar of Nocarella Belice olives, a jar of truffle roasted nuts and a co*cktail suggestion card, they'll have everything they need for lots of cosy nights in as they perfect their new craft.

36. The Beautiful Book Company Subscription Box

RRP: Varies

Gift the avid reader in your life a subscription to receive one of these beautiful book boxes each month. Choose from book categories such as 'contemporary novels' with reads perfect for a book club and 'romantic fiction', and add some details about your friend's reading habits and personality so that the best new and classic reads can be sent to their door. You can also choose the option of a subscription gift voucher to be sent to the recipient, after which they'll be able to choose their own box preferences.

37. Champagne Experiences at Virgin Experience Days

RRP: Varies

From champagne tea for two at Fortnum & Mason (one of our picks for the best afternoon teas in London), to luxury wine, champagne and port tastings with cheese and truffles, there are plenty of unique fizz experiences to gift your loved one for her 40th. The gift voucher can be redeemed for up to a year, so she'll be able to plan a day out she won't forget.

38. Jylin French Press

RRP: £48

One of the best gifts for coffee lovers, this vibrant French press is made from sturdy stoneware, and will brighten up their kitchen pantry. The stoneware outer will also keep coffee warm for longer.

39. The White Company Palmerston Lantern

RRP: £85

This luxurious-looking lantern will look chic outside or inside, and can be filled with a variety of different candles. Perfect for a soon-to-be 40-year-old who's just moved into a new home or is stuck for outdoor living room ideas, the tapered lantern has been hand-crafted and has a mirrored base to reflect the light, which will brighten up an outside space even more at night.